What Is Premature Ejaculation?

It is something that can occur in men at any age, and it is not something that is generally discussed. It can effect a man's self esteem, and his performance in the bedroom. Premature ejaculation can cause problems in his sex life, and in some cases it can also be a sign of a more serious health condition. In most cases premature ejaculation is easily treatable, but only if men understand exactly what it is.

How does premature ejaculation occur?

 Ejaculation occurs when there is enough stimulation and friction to a man's sex organ which causes impulses to be carried to the brain and spinal cord. It is controlled by a man's central nervous system, and occurs in two phases. The first phase is referred to as emission and it is when the sperm is pushed to the bottom of the penis, where it mixes with sections from the seminal vesicles to created seamen. The second phase is ejaculation and the penile muscles contract to push the semen through the head of the penis. In most men once this occurs, his penis usually loses its erection.

What is premature ejaculation?

 Men who suffers from premature ejaculation have no control over when they are going to ejaculate. It usually causes a man to experience an ejaculation sooner than he or his partner would like, and the inability to control it can cause problems to develop in his sexual life. Not only is his partner frequently left feeling unsatisfied sexually, often the man is not satisfied. Often the problem will resolve itself, but if it continues to occur treatment may be an option. 

Does it matter?

 Premature ejaculation matters for several reasons, the most important being that often neither partner is satisfied after having intercourse. It can be irritating for both you and your partner, especially if sexual activity only lasts for a few minutes. It can leave men and women frustrated, angry, and upset, and in some cases even cause problems in a relationship. A man's can also begin to suffer from a loss of self confidence, and may not want to engage in sexual activity.

How to talk to your partner about premature ejaculation?

While you may be the one suffering from the sexual problem, premature ejaculation also affects your partner. Not only can it leave her feeling unsatisfied and frustrated, it can also cause her to lose her confidence in the bedroom. It is important to remember that any sexual dysfunction affects both you and your partner, and it needs to be openly discussed. Not only can this help you diagnose and begin treating the sexual dysfunction, it can help to prevent problems from developing in the relationship. Once your partner begins to understand that it is not her fault, the two of you can also begin trying different techniques and positions in the bedroom. While you might still have a problem with the timing of your ejaculation, you can still spend a few minutes making sure that your partner is satisfied.

Can premature ejaculation occur later in life?

Premature ejaculation can occur at anytime in your life, regardless of your age. Researchers have recently found that age does not play a large role in the development of this sexual problem. Aging does affect your ability to get an erection and can cause you to ejaculate less, but it doesn't cause you to ejaculate sooner that you want too. Premature ejaculation can cause a man to lose his erection sooner than he intended, this is not a sign of an erectile dysfunction it is only the result of ejaculating before he wanted too.

Conclusion

 Premature ejaculation can happen to men at any age, and if it is left untreated it can cause problems in his relationship. Even if the problem occurs infrequently, it is still important to discuss it with your partner. Not only will this help to strengthen the relationship, it is also a good way to devise an appropriate treatment plan. In many cases once men are honest and open about their problem with their partner, they see an almost immediate improvement in their sex lives. If premature ejaculation continues, or is already causing serious problems in the relationship, a health care professional should be consulted to not only work out a treatment plan but also rule out any other medical conditions.